The concept of “Love Languages” popularized by Pastor Gary Chapman’s book, The Five Love Languages has become a widespread and casual part of everyday conversation. However, I rarely find them helpful for my neurodiverse couples or individuals. Many of my... Read More

I am a couples therapist who specializes in neurodiverse couples; couples in which one person is on the autism spectrum. As a couples therapist, my focus is the relationship, as opposed to the individuals in it. However, recently I’ve been... Read More

Nuances in an Autistic Romantic Relationship I read a story about a therapist and her first date with her husband. They have been partners now for 30 years.  He asked her, “Are we on a date?” On the second date,... Read More

Among the strongest partnerships are those in which one member is on the autistic spectrum, but there are unique challenges, presented by neurological differences. Needless to say, the challenges are often in communication. Partners can feel as though they are... Read More